Monday, February 27, 2012

That weird thing called friendship...the bad, the great, and unexpected

Sooooooooo....friendship is a weird thing.

You have some that last...(the great ones)
You have some that don't...(the bad)
And then you have some that are just...unexpected (everything in between)

The bad.


I met a young lady through a mutual friend a couple of months ago and I REALLY thought that we could be really great friends. Everything was going along awesomely and then it's like a switch flipped and it just became unimportant for her to be my friend. It hurt so damn bad too because I am the type of person that really puts a lot of themselves into people they care about so to say that these last few months and the way things came to a close would be disappointing to say the least. I mean but what do you know? When someone makes it clear that you aren't important what are you supposed to do at that point? That shit hurt though.

The great...

There aren't many people I love. I just don't think I am a really emotionally attached person but there are a couple of people that I have met that just have such perfect timing as far as when we talk to each other...

Anna (my lady A). For some strange reason we get each other. I don't know why exactly but we totally just...get each other. She is like a sweet southern belle and I am like the worst, most inappropriate guy ever but no matter how shitty things go in our lives when we talk you just kinda know that somewhere we were always meant to be friends. I think the thing that makes me appreciate her is that I don't have to waste time asking the things that I want to know. We just dive into the deep end and that is what it is...

Minnellis ("minnie" and she would murder me on sight for calling her that). Who knew? I mean I love this woman. She has always and will always be one of my favorite people because we are very alike in certain ways and very different in others. I can't even find words to describe why we "click" but we do. I think I live vicariously through her. When I need REAL advice. When I want to talk about the ugly side of relationships or things that I wouldn't feel comfortable speaking of to anyone else for fear of judgment she is the first name to come to my mind.

The unexpected...

There have been some recent people that I have begun to get closer to and it's really fun because they are so dramatically different from each other...

Julia...Like I have no idea why she is single. It is really cool cause she can always hang out and come to all my UFC events at BWW but she is like so sweet! We get along so well because she loves fashion (like seriously she has shopping issues lol) and REALLY love sports so we will always get along. Plus she might be the most reliable person on earth.

Victoria (the elf princess): I just love Victoria. I don't even really know why we get along so well, but I just love that woman lol...



And there are so many other folks that I am getting to know like Cloud, Brandi, Drea, Kimberly and Elizabeth and more so I am curious to see how things shake out you know? Anyway...I am tired of typing!